What It Really Means To Let Go (God’s formula for T.L.C.)

Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him, and he will act.
Psalm 37:5

Do you need a little tender loving care? 
I do. 
My word for this year has me on quite a journey. As unexpected as could be, but I am learning to walk by faith, and even release my grip along the way. I didn’t think I was one who “clings” or holds on to things. But there are many ways we can carry bags on our journey that God desires for us to release. This is the journey I have found myself on this year. I think I so often get a glimpse of direction from God but either due to fear, doubt or lack of faith which manifests itself this way in my attitude: I do not see myself in this way, therefore this direction can’t be the right one. I must be confused ie. double-minded, prideful, selfish (exchange/add any of these, it all comes down to the same thing). The fact is I am either trusting in myself or trusting in God. 
Trust: The battle belongs to the Lord, as does the journey. From start to finish He is the author and Finisher, the Beginning and the End. Why is it I don’t trust Him for the “in-between”? I am learning again in this battle of wills, losing IS winning. Certainly also less painful, if I trust Him at the onset as opposed to having the mallet drop on the head to get my attention. So how do I trust Him when I can’t see clearly the path ahead? This requires me to listen… 
Lean: Inclining my ear to listen for His voice is the only way I can hear His will. Does He speak to me in an audible voice? Well actually as I incline my ear by reading Scripture, His Spirit does speak by revealing Truth to my ready to receive heart. If I never open my Bible, I am going to be hard-pressed to hear clearly from the God who calls Himself the Logos or “Word”: The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. John 1:14 
The online Dictionary defines the term acknowledge as this: to admit to be real or true; recognize the existence, truth, or fact of: to acknowledge one’s mistakes. Sometimes I am thick in the head. Slow to learn. Like Israel, I am wandering in the desert complaining, when is all God wants from me is to acknowledge Him, which means acknowledging my own fears, doubts and lack of faith. It means admitting that I am afraid His way might not be the best way. Not that I admit it out loud but instead it becomes obvious in specific ways and behaviors. I rely on my own understanding and am hoarding rotten manna, complaining as it melts before my eyes in the hot sun. Trusting Him leads to peace, leaning on my own understanding and ingenuity leads to frustration. Or worse. 
Commit: So my journey leads me again to decision. Last year with the word Less, I committed myself to learn what Jesus would have for me as I learned what it meant for Him to increase, be more in me, in my life as I willingly decreased. (John 3:30) Sounds so against the cultural messages of the day, yes? This year  God is taking me further into the same message as He conforms me. Sometimes I don’t recognize I am resisting His will right away, but I am committed to His correction, discipline and confident that He will direct this stubborn, old mule. I have learned to trust His faithfulness. 
My One Word is Release and I am a on a journey to the Promised Land…just passing through this life, friends, learning to follow the Savior. Join me? I am picking up some stones and releasing some others along the way. I am learning what it means to let go of my will in exchange for a far greater thing. His glory! But I am a slow learner, in need of much grace. He gives it abundantly, and as I receive, I am able to lavish it on others. 

Proverbs 3:5-6
 So here I have taken this passage which God keeps gently leading me to this year and am sharing it a few translations, with the hope it will seep right into my heart and soul. My brain is fairly leaky so this should be no problem. Perhaps you might also appreciate looking at the same passage with fresh eyes. 
Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths. 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths.

Trust God from the bottom of your heart;
    don’t try to figure out everything on your own.
Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;
    he’s the one who will keep you on track.
Don’t assume that you know it all.
(The Message)

Place your trust in the Eternal; rely on Him completely;
    never depend upon your own ideas and inventions.
 Give Him the credit for everything you accomplish,
    and He will smooth out and straighten the road that lies ahead.
(The Voice)

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own understanding;
 think about Him in all your ways,
and He will guide you on the right paths.

Linking up with Melanie at Only a Breath for the One Word Monthly Link Up!
P.S.  Mel also made my One Word Button! 

Published by enthusiasticallydawn

Dawn Paoletta is the author of Journaling for Discovery and Delight. Her writing is included in several anthologies and her poems have been included in the Wickford Poetry and Art Exhibit and Books. Dawn is currently working on her next book. Inquiries at dawn.paoletta@gmail.com

7 thoughts on “What It Really Means To Let Go (God’s formula for T.L.C.)

  1. Awesome!!! I love this Dawn! My One Word last year was Releasing… I loved it and learned so much through out the year! A good hard word… this year my Word is Surprise! Definitely requires some TLC for me!


  2. Hi dear DawnOver via Barbie's! I need to thank you for this verse. I told my husband the same thing today for he has a very important decision to make next week about his work! Reading the same verse here, was such consolation to my heart! Thank you.Much loveMia


  3. Very Lovely! We all have a hard time trusting God in the mist of trouble. We wonder why we are in pain and wonder why God would allow pain, but we least think of it as Him molding us into humble children relying on the Almighty.I recently read another Christian post about trials coming into our lives. Sometimes the enemy will, but God will do. The post said that Jesus was given these trials by God so we can be with Him. “Jesus answered, “You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin.” – John 19:11But we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us through these trails and walk with our Father in Heaven!


  4. Hi Dawn, just stopped by to follow your blog. 🙂 What a great word for 2013! Prov. 3:5-6 is one of my favorite verses. Thanks for sharing all these translations. Beautiful.Cathy from Thoughts on Books


  5. Ah, yes, Dawn – our word for the year. After two years of the same two words working deep inside me – Grace (graciousness) and Humility (brokenness) – 2013 opened with a new word from the Lord for me – HOPE! A companion word – or perhaps more of a prerequisite word is TRUST. Might I even venture to say that by Trust, the Lord is saying RELEASE??? I feel like the Lord is speaking this to His Body as a whole. I can't tell you how many in my immediate circle are called into this same place with so many things looming before us that we are helpless to do anything about – except Trust and Hope by Releasing these earthly cares to Him. I need to make some serious blogging time to explore some of these topics, but can't get beyond simple “sanctuary” posts twice a week – if I'm able! Best to you as you progress here – hanging in there with you . . .Joy!Kathy


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